Brothers create scholarship to honor father, support international students

Chowdry Rafiq and Lila Khan
Chowdry Rafiq and Lila Khan met at as international students SIU.

By Jeff Wilson

For years, brothers Samir and Sahir Khan’s only connection to SIU was the stories their parents shared about Carbondale and the university where they met.

“Our family started at SIU,” said Dr. Samir Khan, a Director with the Government of Canada and an adjunct professor in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Ottawa. “It was always a bit of a mythical place.”

When their father, Chowdhry Rafiq Khan, passed away in February 2023, they decided to honor his legacy with a $50,000 donation to establish the C. Rafiq Khan Scholarship, which will benefit an international student in SIU’s School of Analytics, Finance, and Economics.

As a teenager emigrating from India, Rafiq Khan had been accepted into the University of Alabama and SIU. He settled on attending Alabama and was ready to board a train in Chicago that was headed to Tuscaloosa until a railway employee intervened and explained that Carbondale would be more hospitable.

“At that time, SIU was a progressive island,” said Sahir Khan, executive vice president of the University of Ottawa Institute of Fiscal Studies and Democracy. “Our dad came to SIU during an age when America was opening up to the world. SIU was a university and campus ahead of its environment.”

It didn’t take long for Rafiq Khan to establish himself on campus. He became a leader of many student organizations and was active in student government.

“There was always a fondness for the people in and around Carbondale,” Sahir Khan said. “He remembered them as fundamentally good people. Both he and our mother have nothing but good things to say and fond memories to share, to this day.”

A couple of years after coming to SIU, Rafiq Khan was approached about meeting a fellow Indian student who was going to be arriving by bus. That student was Lila, who became his wife soon after.

“They were from two very different parts of India and didn’t even speak the same language. English was really their shared language,” Samir Khan said. “They made lifelong friendships at SIU. Their friends’ kids are now our friends.”

‘A force for good’

Samir and Sahir Khan hope to inspire others with the story of their family and by honoring their parents by helping students like them.

“Our dad loved universities. He believed that they are a force for good,” Sahir Khan said. “We want this scholarship to attract other foreign students and show that this school can represent you. SIU is opening its doors and hearts to students from around the globe, recapturing the sense of leadership that existed when our parents went there.”

That’s why a scholarship made the most sense. SIU’s impact on the entire Khan family was too great to be ignored.

“We wanted to do something that would leave a strong legacy,” Samir Khan said. “It’s all about education. It was very logical for us to give back to SIU. We’re grateful for the education and experience our parents received in Carbondale. It’s perfectly poetic.”

To make a gift, visit siuf.org.

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